Wondering if a girl’s feelings for you are real?
Maybe there’s something about how she does that makes you think that she’s just pretending to love you?.
In this post, i’ll give you 11 deep signs that you need to know.
How do you know if a girl acts to love you?
1. She acts emotionally and distant
Her moods and behavior, whenever you are together, are a good indication of how she is feeling.
Sure, we all have bad days. But most of the time we should be happy to spend time with our partners.
You would expect her to be warm, smiling, and in a good mood whenever she gets to see you.
But if she is consistently sulky, distant, or even acts bored — it’s a bad sign.
If she seems disinterested when you two are alone together, it sounds like her feelings may not be genuine.
2. She always has excuses for why she needs to cancel plans with you
Life is all about priorities. The people and things in our life who we care most about, we make the most time for.
There will be occasions when something else important comes up, and so it’s reasonable to cancel a date.
But if she is full of excuses for why she can’t see you, or often changes plans last minute, it shows she isn’t respectful of your time.
It also highlights that you come way down her list of priorities, which is why it is a strong sign she’s faking her feelings.
After all, actions speak louder than words, and if she loves you, she’ll want to make the effort to see you.
3) She only says ‘I love you’ until you ask her first
Has she only ever said “I love you” in response to you saying those three little words?
Maybe you even had to ask her if she loves you back.
If she rarely tells you she loves you or she has only ever told you after you tell her first, it could mean she feels obliged to say it but doesn’t really mean it.
Perhaps her feelings aren’t as strong as yours but she wants to keep you happy.
If it seems like she avoids talking about her feelings for you, then she may be hiding something about the way she really feels.
4. She doesn’t want to spend quality time with you
Quality time means spending more time doing activities together than just hanging out at home watching TV.
Does she want to spend time with you doing fun things? Do you go on dates? Go out to dinner? Or do you stay in and watch movies?
Does it seem like she enjoys spending time with you?
If she does lots of things with her friends and other people, but only ever wants to fit you in when she has nothing to do, then it sounds like a relationship based on convenience rather than love.
5. She tries to hide your relationship from other people
Whenever we are with someone, we should feel proud to have them by our side.
If she doesn’t want people to know that you are together then she is trying to hide the relationship.
You’ve got to ask yourself why?
Why wouldn’t she want her friends or family to know about you?
Perhaps she avoids public displays of affection, and when you’re out together acts as though you too are just friends.
The logical answer is that she wants to keep her options open and isn’t quite as invested in the relationship as she should be.
6. She keeps secrets from you
This can also be a sign that she isn’t ready to get serious.
Secrets are something that should be shared between two people who are truly in love.
If she is hiding things from you, you may just sense it.
Perhaps she is very protective over her phone and never wants you to see the messages she is getting from other people. Maybe she disappears for a while and you have no idea what she is up to.
It could mean she has something to hide, or that she doesn’t fully trust you enough to let you in on her most private thoughts.
Either way, it’s a clear indication that she is holding back.
7. She’s hot and cold
Some days she can be sweet and attentive, but then the next she quickly changes.
Her feelings towards you shouldn’t be as changeable as the weather. You shouldn’t wonder which version of her is going to turn up when you meet.
If she messages you a lot one day, but barely replies the next — this shows fickle behavior towards the relationship.
Why would someone pretend to love you? Because it’s convenient when she wants the attention, but she will rapidly withdraw when she has other things on her mind.
Hot and cold feelings are a big sign of leading someone on.
8. She always wants to break up over every little fight
Arguments happen in every relationship. Occasional conflict is a part of life.
But when you love somebody you stick around and work things out.
If her go-too resolution for every time you two have a disagreement is to break up, then she’s not committed to making it work.
It implies she has a fair-weather attitude to the relationship, and only wants it when things are going good. Real love is prepared to stick around for the hard times as well.
9. She only gets in touch when she needs something from you
Does it sometimes feel that you’re more like her handyman or butler rather than her boyfriend?
If she expects you to be at her beck and call or only reaches out when she needs something from you, then there is an unequal balance of power in the relationship.
It sounds like she holds all the cards and thinks she can pick you up and drop you whenever it suits her.
Whilst it’s normal to ask favours from our partner, it shouldn’t be constant. Neither should the only time she calls you be because she wants something from you.
10. She keeps you off her social media
Admittedly everyone is different and for some people, social media isn’t a big deal. But if she often posts stories, pictures, and videos but you never feature in them, then it’s another sign she is trying to hide you.
When we’re with someone who we love, we don’t mind the world knowing about it.
If she doesn’t want the online world to see you are an item, then it’s suspicious.
11. She is very critical of you
Everything you do seems to be wrong.
You just can’t win.
She criticises every little thing you say or do. Perhaps she thinks she always knows best and is never prepared to back down or appologize.
Either way, if she is constantly judging you, then it could be a sign that she doesn’t truly love you.
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